Jan Bayliss Counselling
Jan has been counselling for over 20 years specialising in grief and loss, working with individuals, couples, families and children offering support in various ways including post separation issues and domestic violence. Jan’s podcast offers discussions, insights, guidance and meditations garnered from her time working as a counsellor to help support and nurture your self, your children and your relationships in your every day life.
Episodes
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Shy and Nervous Ness - with Koala
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Monday Apr 10, 2023
In this, the 6th episode in a series of shorts produced by Films4Change about Ness, a young girl who learns to identify and manage her feelings through her conversations with various Australian animals, Ness is found sitting up in the tree talking with Koala, beautifully voiced by Evie the daughter of Mel, CEO Films4Change. Ness is telling Koala about her nervousness and shyness, knowing her mum is having people over. Koala tells Ness that she talks to her mum which helps and Ness is able to acknowledge that it could also help her to share her feelings with her mum.
A beautiful line in this episode is "Feelings pass like the clouds in the sky". Evie also shares her tips on how she overcomes her nervousness.
I hope you enjoy this podcast; thank you all so much for listening. If you'd like to contact me you can find me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au. - I'd love to hear from you. And if you have a moment please do rate and review
The entire Ness series is available online free of charge via the Films4Change Youtube channel athttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpC1QlguAvUvya4O9TpZpfRqyRfmmGrvd
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information on our podcasts please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au
Monday Apr 03, 2023
Nervous Ness
Monday Apr 03, 2023
Monday Apr 03, 2023
This is the 5th episode in a series of shorts produced by Films4Change about Ness, a young girl who learns to identify and manage her feelings through her conversations with various Australian animals. Today Ness talks to Lyrebird, voiced by Jerry from Films4Change, about how proud she is of herself for overcoming her nervousness in her dance concert and winning a medal. Jerry and I discuss positive ways for parents to be able to build resilience in their children by helping them to find their own strengths and develop coping mechanisms to overcome difficult feeling and emotions.
I hope you enjoy this podcast; thank you all so much for listening. If you'd like to contact me you can find me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au. - I'd love to hear from you. And if you have a moment please do rate and review
The entire Ness series is available online free of charge via the Films4Change Youtube channel athttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpC1QlguAvUvya4O9TpZpfRqyRfmmGrvd
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information on our podcasts please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au
Monday Mar 27, 2023
Cranky, lazy, stubborn Ness
Monday Mar 27, 2023
Monday Mar 27, 2023
This is the fourth episode in a series of shorts produced by Films4Change around a young girl called Ness who learns to identify and manage her feelings through her conversations with various Australian animals.
Today Ness talks to wombat, beautifully voiced and characterised by actor Leofric Kingsford-Smith, about her feelings around having to clean her room and her mum calling her cranky and lazy.
Mel and I again discuss the importance of acknowledging and affirming a child's feelings as well as talking around how adults labelling and name-calling children (i.e cranky/lazy etc) can be counter-productive as well as being genuinely hurtful.
This scene ends in such a lovely way too - with Ness giving wombat her own advice about how to clean his burrow :) Tasks can be so much easier when we tackle them with joyfulness rather than resentment !
I hope you enjoy this podcast; thank you all so much for listening. If you'd like to contact me you can find me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au. - I'd love to hear from you. And if you have a moment please do rate and review
The entire Ness series is available online free of charge via the Films4Change Youtube channel athttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpC1QlguAvUvya4O9TpZpfRqyRfmmGrvd
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information on our podcasts please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Anxious Ness
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Monday Mar 20, 2023
This is the third episode in a series of shorts produced by Films4Change around a young girl called Ness who learns to identify and manage her feelings through her conversations with various Australian animals.
Today Ness talks to Butterfly about her anxious feelings around having a new baby brother.
Mel- CEO of Films4Change- and I go on to discuss about the importance of hearing and validating feelings in children and how valuable it can be to honestly share what is going on for us as adults in an age-appropriate manner.
As always, I do hope you enjoy this podcast; thank you all so much for listening. If you'd like to contact me you can find me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au. - I'd love to hear from you.
The entire Ness series is available online free of charge via the Films4Change Youtube channel athttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpC1QlguAvUvya4O9TpZpfRqyRfmmGrvd
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information on our podcasts please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au
Monday Mar 13, 2023
Sad Ness
Monday Mar 13, 2023
Monday Mar 13, 2023
The second in a series of shorts produced by Films4Change which involve a young girl called Ness is now available. Today Ness talks to Joey about her sadness at having to leave her Mum for a short while. Joey is able to talk to Ness about the cosiness he feels in his Mother’s pouch, however understands he will need to leave the pouch as he gets bigger, knowing his Mum is still there for him.. Mel- CEO of Films4Change- and I discuss building resilience in children and what parents can do to support, acknowledge, validate and reassure their child when sharing any feelings.
The entire Ness series is available online free of charge via the Films4Change Youtube channel athttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpC1QlguAvUvya4O9TpZpfRqyRfmmGrvd
As always, I do hope you enjoy this podcast; thanks so much for listening. If you'd like to contact me you can find me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au. - I'd love to hear from you.
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information on our podcasts please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Angry Ness
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Monday Mar 06, 2023
In today's episode we listen to the first in a series of shorts produced by Films4Change which involve a young girl called Ness. Ness learns to express and manage a variety of different feelings with the help of her interactions with different Australian native animals. Today, Ness is Angry and discusses how she feels with a Tasmanaian Devil.
Anger in children can be confronting and triggering for us as adults - Mel and I discuss ways in which we can appropriately and respectfully hear, validate and manage these strong feelings in children.
The entire Ness series is available online free of charge via the Films4Change Youtube channel athttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpC1QlguAvUvya4O9TpZpfRqyRfmmGrvd
As always, I do hope you enjoy this podcast; thanks so much for listening. If you'd like to contact me you can find me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au. - I'd love to hear from you.
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au
Monday Feb 20, 2023
Jan talks with Mel about ’Ness’ - an online series for young children
Monday Feb 20, 2023
Monday Feb 20, 2023
Today I have a lovely discussion with Melinda Arnold, CEO Films4Change, about the beautiful Ness series of 7 online episodes dealing with building resilience in children from a young age. Ness is a young girl who, in each episode, interacts with Australian animals and shares about her feelings. Each animal, beautifully drawn by Belinda Lindhardt of Creative Hardt , is able to assist Ness in finding another way to deal with some of her strong emotions.
The entire series is available on the Films4Change Youtube channel at
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpC1QlguAvUvya4O9TpZpfRqyRfmmGrvd
Over the coming weeks we'll be discussing each episode and looking at ways in which those strong feelings in young children can be respectfully acknowledged and managed.
As always, I do hope you enjoy this podcast; thanks so much for listening and you can contact me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au.
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au
Monday Feb 13, 2023
Jan Bayliss and John Dimond
Monday Feb 13, 2023
Monday Feb 13, 2023
In my podcast released today, it is my pleasure to introduce to you a man who I completed my relationship counselling training with over 20 years ago. His name is John Dimond of John Dimond Counselling. John talks about the life changing experience he encountered during our training, the benefits of undertaking Gestalt body work therapy as well as learning techniques that allow for a deeper respect, understanding and connection to all clients during the course. John also talked about a reframe he uses in the counselling process which is ‘a breakthrough which looks like a breakdown’ where being able to trust in the process is explored in the counselling relationship. Being brave to be vulnerable and permission to allow change is discussed, along with the privilege it is to be on a client’s journey.I do hope you enjoy this discussion, which may give some insight into the client/counsellor role. As always, thanks so much for listening and you can contact me at mail@janbaylisscounselling.com.au.
This podcast was recorded at Studio Kreadiv, Central Coast NSW, Australia by the team at Films4ChangeInc.https://studiokreadiv.com© Jan Bayliss Counselling 2023For more information please contact podcasts@janbaylisscounselling.com.au